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braving icy currents

inaug881during the busyness of the day we stopped in the office long enough to take in the historic precedings in our nation’s capital. what we saw was impressive on many different fronts.  i love that in our country we can have the orderly transition from one adminstration to the next.  i am troubled by the cost of events of this nature and wonder if the $145 million plus could be put to better use.  but that’s just the way we do it.  had a chance to talk some with our youngest tonite about a similar event that rose and i attended with our first born in jan ’89.  i had worked hard for then governor george voniovich and that resulted in our being invited to attend such a historic event.  i love this picture just after then president bush (41) completed his speech.  his reaching over the protective to wave to those below.  if you look closely you can see president reagan (my hero) and his bride nancy reagan. vice president quayle (remember him?) and his bride marliyn are also there.  i remember that we weren’t ableinaug882 to get seats that adjoined so rose and sarai sat up closer in section 9.  here’s a great picture of these beautiful ladies.  i can only guess at the excitement of those in attendance today.   president obama said many encouraging things in his inaugural address.  and i greatly appreciated pastor rick’s invocation particularly his using the hebrew sh’ma.

(Source: Christianity Today)

Let us pray.

Almighty God, our Father, everything we see and everything we can’t see exists because of you alone. It all comes from you. It all belongs to you. It all exists for your glory.

History is your story. The Scripture tells us, “Hear O Israel, the Lord is our God. The Lord is One.” And you are the compassionate and merciful one. And you are loving to everyone you have made.

Now, today, we rejoice not only in America’s peaceful transfer of power for the 44th time. We celebrate a hingepoint of history with the inauguration of our first African American president of the United States. We are so grateful to live in this land, a land of unequaled possibility, where the son of an African immigrant can rise to the highest level of our leadership. And we know today that Dr. King and a great cloud of witnesses are shouting in heaven.Give to our new President, Barack Obama, the wisdom to lead us with humility, the courage to lead us with integrity, the compassion to lead us with generosity. Bless and protect him, his family, Vice President Biden, the cabinet, and every one of our freely elected leaders.

Help us, O God, to remember that we are Americans, united not by race, or religion, or blood, but to our commitment to freedom and justice for all. When we focus on ourselves, when we fight each other, when we forget you, forgive us. When we presume that our greatness and our prosperity is ours alone, forgive us. When we fail to treat our fellow human beings and all the earth with the respect that they deserve, forgive us. And as we face these difficult days ahead, may we have a new birth of clarity in our aims, responsibility in our actions, humility in our approaches, and civility in our attitudes, even when we differ.

Help us to share, to serve and to seek the common good of all. May all people of good will today join together to work for a more just, a more healthy and a more prosperous nation and a peaceful planet. And may we never forget that one day all nations and all people will stand accountable before you. We now commit our new president and his wife, Michelle and his daughters, Malia and Sasha, into your loving care.

I humbly ask this in the name of the one who changed my life, Yeshua, Isa, Jesus [Spanish pronunciation], Jesus, who taught us to pray:

“Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.”

and the closing remarks from president obama himself.  i pray that God’s blesses his steps and actions.

So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled. In the year of America’s birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:

“Let it be told to the future world … that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive…that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet (it).”

America, in the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children’s children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God’s grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations.

a (re)new year…

blessings all as we begin 2009!

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my bride and best friend ran off to the theater on monday to see  the tale of despereaux. it was delightful…definitely a must-see this year.  there was lots of teachable ideas but the idea of hope seemed to be a guiding theme.  and that is a good thought for this new year’s day.  rose posted on her blog this morning a devotion from proverbs31 ministires.  given all that i know we are working through and what you may be working through i think this is a great start…to being renewed in ’09…may your hope be in Him!

The Night I Lost All Hope
Elaine Bonds, She Speaks Graduate

“But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” Isaiah 40:31 (NIV)

I remember it so well – the night I lost all hope. I had been hoping that my prodigal son was not lying to me. While I was 99% sure he was, I still clung to the 1% chance he was telling the truth. My heart simply refused to give up that final thread of hope.

As a condition of living in our home again, we asked that our 21-year old son attend a weekly support group meeting. We wanted him back home; his other living choice was not a good one. But we needed to establish boundaries, offering a safe place to live without tolerating or enabling his destructive behavior. We wanted to start rebuilding the trust we had lost. One building block was his Friday night support group meeting. Though our son said he was attending, in my heart I felt something was wrong.

One night I just had to know if he was living up to his commitment. I drove to the place where his meeting was held and my fears were confirmed: he was nowhere to be found. I went right home and waited. When he came home I asked about his meeting. “The meeting was fine. I’m tired and going to bed.” I had caught him in a lie!

Hope left me and discouragement came quickly to replace it. I couldn’t even confront him – at least not yet. I needed time to wrestle with the loss of the 1% of hope. It was just a tiny bit of hope. No big loss, right? … Wrong! That last 1% of hope is what I held onto the tightest. I was so angry and crushed. But then, God spoke. He chose a friend to speak His Words to me the very next day. She had no clue what was happening with our son. She just prayed what God prompted her — for me to have HOPE! She emailed me her prayer:

“Father, You are the God of all hope. Your Word tells us that those who hope in You will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, and they will walk and not be faint. I pray this for Elaine this morning … that she will place her HOPE in You and You alone …”

Reading her prayer, it suddenly became clear to me. My hope had been in my son and in that weekly meeting. The hope I had lost – that 1% I’d been clinging to – was human hope. That kind of hope is in limited quantity, and when it runs out, you are left drained, discouraged, disappointed and …hopeless! Oh, it may masquerade as “hope,” but it is completely different from the hope that God provides. God’s hope renews and refreshes. It empowers, uplifts, and strengthens. God’s hope does not disappoint! There is an unlimited supply of God’s hope.

God knew I had been clinging to human hope, and He knew that last 1% of weak, feeble hope would run out. He wanted me to cling to Him, the God of true, lasting, unlimited hope. So, as I wiped my tears, I waited as the winds of God’s hope blew my way. My circumstances were still the same, but my heart was now filled with the hope that only God can provide.

Dear Lord, Thank You for Your wonderful, everlasting hope. Please help me always put my hope in You and You alone. Thank You that with You all things are possible. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Application Steps:
Pray today about a situation you’ve considered hopeless. Ask God to give you His perspective and His hope.

Reflections:
Ask God to reveal where you are placing your hope. Are you hoping in your husband, your bank account, your job, a program, a promise from someone? Or, are you truly placing your hope in the Lord?

Let 2009 be a year that you place your hope in God alone.

Power Verses:
Psalm 42:5, “Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.” (NIV)

Romans 15:13, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (NIV)

Psalm 147:11, “The Lord delights in those who fear him, who put their hope in his unfailing love.” (NIV)

© 2008 by Elaine Bonds. All rights reserved.
Labels: Balance, Overcoming Fear, Parenting, Spiritual Warfare, Trusting God, Walking in Faith

thanksgiving postscript

just a rambling or two at the end of a good day.  wanted to share some pictures from our thanksgiving eve service at the ashland campus.  a creative time together to drive down the opportunity to get to know some new folks. its been two months since the launch and it was good to sit around a table.  at our table was a family we sort of know already but it was a blessing to spend some time together. all the children (and those at heart) were encouraged to draw with crayons on the table to share stories and words about what we’re thankful for.  pastor bud shared some words from the original thanksgiving proclaimation from lincoln’s pen in 1863. in the midst of our national messiness the closing sentence works to focus us…

and fervently implore the interposition of the Almighty Hand to heal the wounds of the nation and to restore it as soon as may be consistent with the Divine purposes to the full enjoyment of peace, harmony, tranquillity and Union.

we completed our evening with a sharing in the eternal meal of thanksgiving at each table.  each table had a different focus verse from the bible, ours was [youversion] Psalm 7:17[/youversion].

i also found this article over at fox that seemed appropriate from father jonathan…

Our greatness as a nation has relied on our unrelenting hope. If we’ve been good at facing foes, if we’ve been unafraid of work, if we’ve had big ideas and the will to make them work, it’s because our hearts have been accustomed to believing in things unseen.

its in those unseen things that we all need to hang on to…and truthfully the only power to offer us comfort is in God himself. so as come to the close of a day of national thanksgiving i pray that you’ll be encouraged to place your faith, your worry and your fears in the only true God.

personally it was good today to spend time with our extended family. our home grew with amazing aromas today as rose baked her heart out…mincemeat & pumpkin pies and her amazing frosted cookies. our son the marine landed in the driveway home from camp lejuene around 0900…and our oldest made it in from delaware around 2. somewhere in the middle of that the son and i talked about his next steps and his future deployment abroad. a little later we loaded up the goodies and headed out to my parents home and enjoyed a great evening.  praying your thanksgiving day was equally filled with much goodness, blessings and unrelenting hope.

good morning marines

we got the video from our son jed’s graduation from bootcamp at parris island as a united states marine. i pulled this clip which was one of the more larger impressive moments.  if you think about this morning…pray for our son and those he is serving with…as well as all those who are in harms way this day.

p.s. i think the base commander knew she was setting us up.  it was impressive.

the final hours…

finally this process is almost over…at least the electioneering thing.  i am concerned that in several states we’ll see some elections contested in the margins which could force some unpleasantness for sure.

EARLY this morning our emmah and i rolled out of our warm beds and headed to the north coast to take in the last stop in ohio by the gop team…gov. palin.  we got to the park with out much effort and i was suprised that i passed without having to be wanded or hand search.  some have said that i’m infatuated by gov. palin.  i don’t think that’s  the case.  but i am impressed with her style and her political voice. i’ve been looking for someone for awhile that could rally those reaganesque sort of ideals…limited government, personal responsiblity and public defense.   gov. palin seems to have connected with a certain part of the heartland.  as we stood there during the premlinary program…a bunch of local gop candidates i was very unimpressed.  and perhaps that may explain palin popularity and the reality that though the polls have tighten…i’m not sure mccain will win.  the loss is more about the failure of the republicans to champion their principles than anything else.

i’m not surprised.

prior to stepping into vocational ministry i was emeshed in the political machine.  for what i thought was the right reason.  politics is an interesting thing.  its a messy thing too.  i’ve watch many who stepped off to impact the system and get swallowed by it.  that’s why i like sarah palin.  there’s something fresh in  her voice that offers a new perspective.

as i watched her today…i was even more impressed.  she’s bright and articulate.  she understands the limits of government.  this current process has placed her in a new role.  in just a few short hours we’ll see how the role will play itself out.

finally as we were headed back to the car we passed this van.

it seemed to offer a interesting contrast.  where this van was parked was right accross from the rally.  someone took the opportunity to provide another opinion.  fun stuff.

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